Saturday, November 5, 2011

My Aunt won't be a "Parent"?

it was very sweet of her to take u in she didn't have to. she is not ready to be mom. here's a game my daughter and i played that may help. i became her and she became me u will have to do this in a second voice with an old doll since your aunt doesn't want to take the hint. since u know what is right and wrong have the doll dish out the punishments. don't make them killers but make them so u know to tow the line. so u tell the doll u sed auntie today. and doll mom says that wasn't nice. u should respect auntie because she puts a roof over your hear and the list goes on. sorta like counting your blessings. your aunt does care - in her own way - she was not ready for motherhood when she stepped to the plate and took u in and it doesn't seem like she is any more ready now than she was then. if the doll doesn't work u can tell me. i may not know if u listen or take to heart what i say but i do care and i am a soon to be great grandmother (not happy about that) so i am safe enough. so if u want to e me and i will be a friend who cares... sorry for the loss of your parents. it may not be ur aunt's fault u misbehave but u r a teen and that is what they do. u r growing up and testing your wings so some of what u r trying and testing is natural to the age and not just spiteful so not to worry too much about it. just don't do anything really stupid like stealing or something that can hurt your future... good luck no matter what u decide.

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